“Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve
me and I learn.”
― Benjamin Franklin
There are many methods for teaching but not all of them are
equal. My time in China has taught me
that the main stream education system employs a certain set of techniques. This usually involves: repetition, textbooks,
and memorization for examinations. Young
college students often have 10 years of English teaching before they even reach
the college level. However, they are far
from literate. So often the ones charged
to teach the students English are in and of themselves inadequate for the
task. Their pronunciation is poor and
their verbal skills are lacking. This
isn’t necessarily their fault. Many of
them are trying the best they can with what they have. It’s often a matter of inadequate
resources. That’s why true English speakers
are a highly prized commodity. However, just
because teachers, like me, can speak English fluently doesn’t mean that we necessarily
know how to teach. Thus, why I am
writing today’s blog. Almost two years
of teaching ESL (English as a Second Language) in American alongside one-and-half
years of teaching Chinese students in China has taught me a few things. I want to share them with you now.
1. “They can talk!” (Uncovering Hidden Skills)
10 years of memorization and reciting English lessons from
cassette tapes has buried a lot of knowledge in these young Chinese
students. Their lack of proper verbal
communicating is not from a lack of knowledge so much as it is from experience. Often students are crippled with shyness. This is especially true when speaking with a foreigner. I’ve seen so many quivering lips when having
a simple conversation with my students.
They’re scared of screwing up. The
first responsibility of a foreign teacher is to make the students feel
comfortable. One way I will accomplish
this task is by moving around the classroom and speaking with the students
face-to-face. I try to gather their
attention directly on me and not on speaking out in front of the whole classroom
of their peers. My goal is to help them
feel like they are talking just to me.
So I engage them in very much the same way someone would in a one-on-one
conversation. They appreciate this. Sometimes I even pull out a chair and simply
invite them to have a free-conversation with me. This is where I let them talk to me about
whatever they want to talk about.
Sometimes only one student will join me for a free-chat and other times
I’ll have a group of 12+ who want to join in.
They all gather in a circle and we just simply talk.
2. “They can act!” (Roleplaying for Safety)
Another great way to help the students feel more comfortable
about speaking is to give them a mask to hide behind. Roleplaying and dramas allow for students to
become another character and to speak freely as that character. In their imaginations they are someone else
and the process of their character losing face isn’t detrimental to their
personal loss of face. The character
acts like a protective shield. In fact,
a character being foolish can produces humor, which in turn increases the
personal charisma of a student. I’ve
seen this manifest in some pretty funny scenarios. In one class, there were four boys acting out
a relationship drama. The drama was
about a young girl who was bringing home a surprise boyfriend to meet her
parents. The mother was supposed to be
less than happy about this as her objective in the drama was to convince the
young daughter to focus on her studies rather than on a boyfriend. So the four boys played the parts of the
daughter, mother, father, and the boyfriend.
They hammed it up good! The
daughter was hugging her boyfriend tightly and ogling over his muscles, the
boyfriend was flexing his muscles and claiming that love is all that matter
because he was so poor, the mother was busy waving a frying pan around and
chasing the young man out of the house, and the father was too busy reading a
newspaper to even care. It was
hilarious!
3. “You like me. You really like me!” (Becoming Friends with the Students)
As a young man of 28, I find myself barely more than a few
years older than my students. Being that
some students even wait a few years before going to college makes the age gap
even less. So a young teacher can become
like a big sibling to most of these young men and women. College life in China is very different from
America. The students do not have easy
means to transportation and very few of them have any extra spending
money. The campuses aren’t littered with
cars, like they are in America. Students
live in the dorms. Their life is often
limited to getting on the internet, playing basketball, or just hanging out
with friends in a cold empty classroom. There
are no social hangout spots. Hua Hang
has even fewer external restaurants for students to go than the Teacher’s University. It’s a pretty desolate place. So many of them are bored. But they are also really nice and really fun
people. So I will go and play with them. Sometimes that means eating with them in the
cafeteria, taking a group to a coffee house to play cards, playing football on
the sports field, or just taking a walk around the campus and talking. It’s the friendship with Chinese students
that really makes teaching her worth so much.
4. The Rewards (Give a Little, Take a Little)
Most students are timid about asking a teacher to be their
friend. However, most are also eager to
have a teacher as their friend. One
practical reason for having an American teacher as a friend is that the student
can regularly practice their English. This
goes both ways as an American teacher can also practice their Chinese. There isn’t a day that goes by where I’m not
asking a Chinese student to teach me some Chinese. I’ll pull out my little notebook and I’ll ask
them to teach me a new phrase. They’ll
eagerly write it down and teach me how to say it properly. (Showing an effort to learn Chinese is a
great way to earn the respect of the students.)
Having Chinese students as friends is almost a requirement for
survival. Just last week I needed to get
my haircut and I didn’t know where to go.
I didn’t know where any of the barbershops where near Hua Hang. So I posted a comment on QQ (China’s version
of facebook) that I needed some help. I
had several students offering their services.
One of my students, named Ren Fei, took me the following morning to a
street filled with barbershops. We
passed nearly thirteen different shops before at last coming to the “right one.” Ren Fei told the hairdresser what I wanted
and the young man set to work. I’m
always nervous about getting my haircut because it doesn’t always turn out well
in the end. But, this young man did an excellent
job. It was the best haircut I ever had in
China. I was doubly surprised when I
found out that Ren Fei had actually paid for my haircut while I was in the
chair. I objected to this gesture of kindness
but she wouldn’t hear of it. So, I got
her back by treating her to a cup of warm milk tea at the local coffees shop.
5. Adventure Buddies (Travelling with Students)
Sometimes a teacher will get surprised by an invitation from
a student to travel. I find it to be
quite an honor to be asked to travel with my students. They are often going to places together as a
group of friends and they don’t need me to tag along. But, they want me to come along because they
view me as one of their friends. So, I
have been invited to many places in China and I almost nearly accept every
invitation. One of the latest
invitations I received was to hiking a famous mountain in Beijing called the Fragrant Hills Park (Xiangshan Park; Chinese: 香山公园; pinyin: Xiāngshān Gōngyuán). The Fragrant Hills, or more commonly called,
“Xiangshan,” is a large mountain park with an enormous Buddhist Temple. The temple is open to visitors and there arer
many paths up the mountain for hiking and exploring. I was asked to go there with a group of
students but several of the students ended up getting sick that morning with
food poisoning. Thus I ended up only
traveling with one student named Taylor. We weren’t going to let a few missing comrades
ruin our trip! So we hopped on the train
from Langfang up to Beijing, then we hopped on the subway to the North of the
city, and then lastly we hopped on a bus to the mountain. It took us almost 4 hours of travel just to
reach the base of the mountain. We visited
the temple first as it is the first stop on the mountain hike. I was amazed at how big this thing was. It was built more like a castle than a
temple. There were seven courtyards,
towers, moats, and even a built in waterfall.
Inside each courtyard was a massive pagoda housing any number of
gods. There was one pagoda that housed
one hundred life-sized bronze statues of famous monks. It was quite a sight to see! After visiting the temple, Taylor and I made
our way up the mountain. It took us nearly
two hours to reach the summit, but it was worth the hike. We stood on the lookout and surveyed the
valley below. It was a somewhat foggy
day so the view wasn’t the best. But it
was overcoming the mountain that made us both feel good.
You are really gifted! I like the picture of you with the sign at the beginning. :)
ReplyDeleteWow, Benjamin, I love reading all that you are doing, learning, seeing and being.
ReplyDeleteGreat blog.